When unorota hofori, pamwe wakambonzwa wakaderera kune vamwe, munhu asingakoshi pasi rino. Kurwa kubva kuvabereki vako kukundikana bvunzo, mutsara kubva kumudzidzisi kuchikoro kana chiitiko naboss wako kubasa kungave kwakakonzera kunzwa uku. Iwe unonzwa uri mudiki pamberi pevamwe, usina simba, usingakwanise kuita.
Nekudaro, kune zvimwe zvinogona kududzirwa zvinoenderana nemamiriro echiroto. Semuyenzaniso, hazvireve zvakafanana kana hofori ikadzingirira iwe (verenga zvakawanda nezve kurota kuti vari kundidzinganisa) kuti kana uri iwe munhu mukuru anotsika musha usina dziviriro. Naizvozvo, zviri nyore kuti iwe uverenge zvese zvinobvira.
Zvinoreva kurota zvehofori
Kurota vepfungwa vanotaura kuti kurota kwehofori kunomiririra yako kutya kusangana nematambudziko. Zvinogoneka kuti urikupfuura nhanho iyo iwe yaungade kutarisana nemunhu akakurwadzisa, semunhu waunodzidza naye uyo asingamire kusangana newe kana iwe uchida kutaura zvakakwana kumukuru ari kukushungurudza pabasa.
Iwe unogona kushamisika kana iwe uchiziva kududzira imwe neimwe yehope dzako, nekuti iwe unogona kuzviziva iwe zvirinani zvirinani. Kuenderera mberi nemienzaniso, hazviite zvakafanana pfungwa kurota uchirwa uye unotarisana nehofori (iwe unowanzo simira kune zvaunotya) pane kuyedza kutiza uye kuvhimwa naye.
Kazhinji dudziro dzehope nehofori
Hofori dzinokubatsira here? Kazhinji, hofori muhope dzako chikonzero chekutya, asi mune iyi kesi, dudziro yacho yakanaka.
Simba uye ushingi hwekugadzirisa matambudziko zvinoratidzwa munguva dzakaoma. Unouya mumatambudziko uye unoedza kuenda kumberi zvakadaro.
Kurota kwehofori kukudzingirira inomiririra hunhu husina njodzi, kutya kwako kukunda matambudziko pasina rubatsiro rwekunze, kutya kukundikana uye a kunzwa kwekusakosha.
Muenzaniso wakanaka ungave vanhu vanotya kana vachifanira kupa kutaura pamberi pevanhu: ruzhinji runovatyisa, kukura kwevanhu vanovateerera vachitaura kunoita kuti vanzwe vari vadiki.
Nguva yasvika yekukurira iyo phobia zvekuti husiku hunonyangarika kamwechete uye zvachose.
Ndangariro dzakaipa dzehudiki. Hofori dzinoonekwa muzviroto apo wakararama mamiriro akaomaSevabereki vakakuranga pasina chikonzero kana kukuitira zvisina kunaka muhudiki hwako.
Iko kusaziva hakuna kukanganwa icho chakashata chinwiwa uye chinoshandura munhu akakudzvinyirira iwe kuva hofori, mumwe munhu wausina kuremekedza, asi iwe waitya.
Kana iwe ukarota hofori, usavhunduke, futi inogona kumiririra kuchengetedzeka kwako. Kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchazoda, ''
Nekudaro, zvakare zvinounza kukanganisa kudiki: unozvidza vamwe vanhu, unonzwa kunge uri pamusoro pevamwe uye chinhu chaunofanira kugadzirisa.
Chido chekusimudzira wega. Dzimwe nguva tinorota hofori sechiratidzo chekuda kwedu kukura pachedu (kwete muhukuru). Iwe unotenda kuti uri kukura uye iwe unogona kutora mutoro wezvinhu zvitsva muhupenyu hwako.
Uye iwe, Wanga uri kurota sei nehofori? Wakatambura here kana kuti wakanzwa zviri nani nezvako? Uri kuita sei mukuzviremekedza? Iwe unofunga ichi chiratidzo here chekuti vanhu vanokutarisira pasi uye kuti zvinokubata? Tiudze zvakadzama kuti kesi yako yanga iri sei uye kududzirwa kupi iwe kwawakawana, kugovana zviitiko nevamwe vese vevaverengi kunotibatsira kudzidza!
Kana ichi chinyorwa nezve hope hofori, ipapo ini ndinokurudzira iwe kuti uverenge zvimwe zvakafanana muchikamu che zviroto zvinotanga nebhii G.
Ndakarota ndiine vandaishanda navo. Ini ndanga ndichitsvaga wandaishanda naye wandakanga ndichidanana naye, asi akange asiri (kunzwisisa kuti handina hanya) ndaigara ndichitamba nesimba, saka ndakaramba ndichifamba ndichiseka nevamwe vangu, uye mumwe wevaaishanda navo akaonekwa ari muchimiro hofori inopwanya saiye edhisheni. Ndaiti ndikamutarisa ndisingatyi kuti achandipwanya ndonzwisisa kuti zvimwe ndiye akakodzera kumunhu wandakanga ndichidanana naye. Ini ndaitendeuka ndobva ndaenda nevamwe vangu kunogadzirisa gomba mupatio, taidzvara kunge kamuti kadiki (kainge kakaita kunge davi) uye taisiya pasi kunyangwe.
Pakupedzisira, ndakaona chivakwa kubva kure uye mamwe magunguwo matema aibhururuka pamusoro payo…. Zvinorevei? Ndakaudzwa gore rapfuura kuti ndaive nekenza yechibereko, uye mumwe wangu akandisiya panguva chaiyo yandaida zvakanyanya. Akabva adzoka kuhupenyu hwangu uye ... ini ndinonzwa chaizvo sekunge isu tangoita bonde. Iko hakuna kukuru kufarira pane kwako chikamu. Ini ndakaomarara, uye haana kundidzikisira futi, asi ndakataura naye svondo rino ndainzwa mune rovera uye achiri kunditendera kuti ndione. Ini ndinonzwisisa kuti iwe hauna kufarira kumwe chete neni maari pamwe. Ini ndinongoda mumwe munhu kuti andiudze kuti ndirege hukama hune chepfu.
Ndakarota ndichirwa nezvikara kuti ndiponese mhuri yangu, asi ndaitadza kufamba. Zvishoma nezvishoma ndaifamba nekukurumidza uye ndichirwa nani. Uye ipapo akarwa nematitans aibva kudenga, akapedzisira ava mumiriri wepasirese achiunza rugare. Sei ndichirota zvisinganzwisisike zvakadaro? Rimwe zuva ndakanga ndarota kuti mudiwa wangu akafamba kumberi kunodzidzisa naVaMillagui kuti tisazokanganisa imba yedu mune ramangwana nekuenda kuprom kwedu kwaiimba Bon Jovi pamutambo wedu wekupedzisira?
Ndakarota ndiri normal nemhuri yangu pakabva patanga zi gofori redombo richiparadza vanhu vese ndakatya ndikashaya kuti ndomhanyira kupi, richiswedera pedyo rakabva ranyangarika ndikakumbira rubatsiro rikabva raoneka futi mune izvozvo. Ndamuka here alarm yangu??
Ndakarota hofori yakatetepa yaidya vanhu. Zvekare kuti anga achindidzinganisa.
Hi zvinhu zviri sei! Nguva pfupi yapfuura rimwe zuva rapfuura, ndakarota ndichirwa muhondo uye paive negedhi refu refu rakavezwa nematombo uye kuti hofori ina dzakanga dzakandipoteredza dzichirwa uye kuti takataurirana kuti tirambe tichirwa uye tichinzvenga mapanga nematombo akawanda aitiwira. , pane imwe nguva pandakanga ndava pedyo nemusuo mukuru, ndaifanira kukwira pairi kuti ndione zviri nani mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye mushure mechinguva, ndakamuka kubva kuhope dzangu; asi hakasi kekutanga kurota hofori, kubva makore mazhinji apfuura ndairotawo hofori mbiri dzaive mune imwe hofisi ndikaona dzichitora mamwe mapepa kubva mufolder kana folda kubva mudhirowa remafaira. mumwe wavo Akandipa zano kuti ndeapi mazwi andinofanira kutaura kuti ndizvidzivirire, saka ini ndagara ndichitevera zano iroro nenzira yangu yakajeka uye yakanaka, ndinovimba ruzivo rwangu nerudzi urwu rwezviroto zvinoshamisa ruchakubatsira, asi muchokwadi handisati ndaziva. nzira yekuvadudzira nayo nechokwadi uye ndagara ndichiedza kunzwisisa kuti chii chiri seri kwezvose izvi. Zvakanaka, kwaziso.